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OT - Valentine's woes..

Post#1 » Fri Feb 09, 2018 12:33 pm

Wow.. Just got done reading a long rant by one of my former comrades, who's still active duty. Over the past 10 years, he's been deployed 7 times over the valentines period, and his new wife (of 5 years) is also getting irked about it.. Strangely though, SHE feels its OK for a woman to miss a man's birthday/important day but hell will freeze over before the wife/gf/SO, is ever ok with a man missing valentines..

Over the years, i have heard similar stories, and even worse..
Which makes me scratch my head. Why is ok for her to miss an important day of his, even for silly stuff (like she just didn't want to cancel her gals night out), but HE can never miss anything important to her, even if its cause of work?

Anyone else here, experience (Or hear from kin/friends) Similar stories??

Or situations like when a guy moves his gf into live with him, and instantly HER STUFF takes over the closet, so HE has to go into another bedroom to get dressed.
Or upon moving his SO in, SHE tosses out HIS Stuff (sometimes literally tossing them out onto the street), so she can move her stuff into the house??

Hearing of stories like that time and time again, and adding in other stuff to the mix; like one from a co-worker who worked NIGHTS religiously, but had to sleep iN THE BASEMENT cause wifey refused to let him put up ANY sort of window blinds/curtains in the bedroom. Then other stores, such as one man i knew who did the date scene, asking 5 separate gals in one of those 'date meet ups', if a wife wants something, but a husband needs something that would prevent wife getting what she wants - practically ALL the gals he asked said "WELL his need just has to take a back seat to her want"..
It makes me wonder, WHY so many guys get married?

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Post#2 » Tue Feb 20, 2018 4:54 pm

That's precisely why so many men are NOT getting married. Too many psychotic feminist bitches out there who are deranged. Sad but true. I saw an article linked to Drudge a few weeks ago, where men are deciding to buy freaking sex dolls because they prefer not to have to deal with the crazy shit women are giving them. Unreal. I always tell people...find a good woman. If it takes time, take the time. Don't settle for a bitch. One of my oldest friends did that. Married a psycho Nazi and she ruled his life. If he wanted to meet up for lunch and catch up on old times (I've known him since kindergarten!), it's like planning an affair! 8O Oh, I can't go there, my wife goes there sometimes. Oh, can't meet there, it's too close to our neighborhood. He can't even meet an old friend for lunch! They've been married for over 20 years now, and not last Xmas but he Xmas before he called me in a suicidal depression because he thought she was cheating on him and the marriage was over. He sleeps on the couch downstairs. A pathetically sad state of affairs.

Sorry ladies. I'm king of the castle. Period. You can be the queen, but I am the KING. Never a peasant. Take it or leave it.

The saddest part is that there are plenty of fine women out there. Men just need to learn to accept only the best, and leave the crazy ones alone.

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Post#3 » Tue Feb 20, 2018 11:28 pm

Halaster-Blackcloak wrote:That's precisely why so many men are NOT getting married. Too many psychotic feminist bitches out there who are deranged. Sad but true. I saw an article linked to Drudge a few weeks ago, where men are deciding to buy freaking sex dolls because they prefer not to have to deal with the crazy shit women are giving them.


Well, when many women seem to treat men as nothing more than servants, to be ordered around, kicked out of the bedroom, master closet, or to carry her stuff, and must always praise what she does, but dare never critique it, what do they expect??

The saddest part is that there are plenty of fine women out there. Men just need to learn to accept only the best, and leave the crazy ones alone.


Pity it seems most good "Fine" women out there (Beauty wise) are often the most bitchiest..

As i mentioned in the OP, i knew one guy, who the NIGHT he moved his GF into his place, came back from work to find all HIS furniture moved out onto the sidewalk, all HIS clothes tossed down into the basement, cause SHE MOVED all her stuff in, and literally took OVER THE master bedroom.. And when he tried to boot HER out, she smacked her head into the wall three times, then threatened to call the cops on HIM FOR domestic violence, if he even tried it... 8O 8O Luckily he got back on her, when SHE went to work, he just tossed all HER stuff out, then changed the locks on the doors...

I also knew another guy, military so was moving all the time, who made a deal with his wife that they agreed to IN THEIR wedding vows.. For as long as they were military, and thus HE would be moving HER around for HIS work, SHE got the final say on the place they would live in.
BUT ONCE He got out, and ONLY IF they had to then start moving other places for HER work (assuming she even had one), HE WOULD then get the final say. The very first move after they retied was for HER getting a job down in New zealand (Xray operator at a hospital), and she practically started divorce paperwork right there, when he wanted one house that was BOTH IN BUDGET and close to her work, but lacked one thing SHE demanded (a white kitchen).. all cause he USED the agreed upon final decision from their bloody vows..

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Post#4 » Wed Feb 21, 2018 1:42 am

It's all the societal propaganda that's destroying our culture. I study these things intently. I'll probably cover this in my PhD thesis at some point.

Look at shows back in the day. The Brady Bunch. Father Knows Best. TV show portrayed men as competent, skilled, well-kept, and wise. Today it's the opposite. Shows like King of Queens. Nowadays, the father is not is not shown as someone to be looked up to, respected, or emulated. Instead, men are fat slobs, stupid, lazy, dirty. I have a few friends with whom I joke around about this. In so many tv shows, movies, etc., mom is a supermodel who can cook and do interior decorating and keep the house looking like a showroom without even a part time maid to help, all while she's also working in some prestigious job. I always say (imitating one of the children in one of these shows):

"This is my mom. She's an interior decorator and also an architect, so she decorated our showroom home after she designed and built it. She's a professional chef as well, and manages to balance her family time with her research work as a PhD in virology while pursuing her Nobel Prize. That guy there? Oh, he's my sperm donor. Sometimes we call him dad. He's handy to have around when we need to kill a spider, if we can get him off his fat lazy ass and away from football game long enough to handle it."

:roll:

I can give example after example. Men are portrayed as fat, useless, emasculated cucks who offer nothing other than being sperm donors, which begs the question of just how these losers manage to marry supermodels with PhDs! :roll:

Make no mistake, the powers that be use the media as propaganda to brainwash the masses. I could get into another thing about commercials on tv that I have documented over the years. I can't really get into it though because it touches on sensitive issues of race. Suffice it to say that many friends of mine have at first said "Oh, you're insane! That's not true". But after challenging them to look at the evidence they walk away with that deer-in-the-headlights look, saying "Holy shit, you weren't joking!"

Yes, I do my research.

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